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Posted: 09 Jan 2008 17:38
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Thanks for the cheer and thoughtful reply. Just so you know, I was not ever the "other woman" in the case of R--- and his girlfriend. They all (She,R--- and the child live in another state, and he was gone from that relationship when he met me. She totally disapproved of his occupation. But he has now changed to another I am sure she will approve of, so who knows. In any case, I am a true "loner". I now have dancing which is rather new for me, and quickly was promoted to instructor (temp.) as the owner of the studio's wife got too big!! LOL, Pregnant. I was able to "step in" and still am doing it (something, I found I love better than anything.)
I am really good by myself. My bro-in-law is still here. My off again, on again-- was offended at something bro-in-law said about my sis and kicked his a-- HERE.( around Jan 1st.) My sis found out what he said and won't let him go home. What a mess! The kids visit him here. I am appealing to my sis to get into some mediation QUICK.No body was drinking my off again, on again won't stand for a man to insult a woman that way. Fair fight, same size, but R---(off again,on again) has a hell of a punchand it took only one to put b-in law down for awhile. He did carry him to the couch and get him an ice pack) He is certainly OK now (for days) But loves my couch!
I am sure it will all work out. "A slip of the lip is no fault of the heart" I tell her. She is listening.Her husband has GOT TO GO HOME. Well, that is enuff of a dumb family situation. LOL. pardon me.
But what I needed to say was, his break up, had nothing whatsoever to do with me, I would never get in the middle of a guy, girl and their child. never, never.The child is in kinder-garden, so it was a long time past anyway.
Posted: 09 Jan 2008 21:24
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Dr. Scape,
So some of your answers were clairvoyant and clear as mud, savy?
Quote: If you're in between jobs, you can do what you are doing by getting into writing, put out job searches, volunteer, take courses, read books, exercise etc. Rome wasn't built in a day, but it was built over time.
Very true, I've been to several interviews, and I am continuing to apply to jobs as I find them - the good part about this area is that there are a lot of opportunity. Heck, even the place I just completed my assignment, the Senior Bus. Mgr I worked with expressed interest in having me work there again, should contracts permit it. Plus, I love to continue learning!! I grew up working with computers and tearing stuff apart (now putting stuff back together was interesting - almost always had left over parts! ha!).
Quote: I do believe that if we pray, stay grounded, while being at peace in ourselves that God allows speaks to our spirit or soul. There are so many times where I just know what the right thing to do is. So in away am I contradicting myself but not fully. I guess it's this, I have the choice to choose what ever I want to do in life. Though sometimes there are better choices than others and that God will allow you to know what roads to take. I also believe that God will bless those who make wise choices and have a right heart.
Um, okay!! My take is, that we (while on Earth) will not ever get to understand everything that goes on around us. I chaulk it up to the fact we, using our human brains, try to reason out plans that a being that has a brain capacity far beyond what we have. Therefore, I keep a list of questions to ask God when I get to heaven.
Quote: I think I need to find a convent.
Ha, I used to scare the daylights out of my parents b/c I told them I would grow up to be a hermit (hey, I was in my Airwolf phase - although I was always most comfortable being alone. Shadow, Dr. Scape has raised some good points for you to consider, pray on these and I'm sure you'll make the right decision. __________________
The Bible is so powerful. It's not to be left on your shelf. It's to outline even the simplest scriptures that can mean so much in building yourself up.
"I am God's workmanship." (Ephesians 2:10)
"I have been redeemed and forgiven." (Colossians 1:14)
"I am the salt and the light of the earth." (Matthew 5:13-14)
Seriously though, I agree with you that much will be waiting for us on the other side.
Shadow, I really think you need to clean house and be peaceful. It sounds so chaotic where you are. Not good at all. Anyways it's all your own choice. I hope and pray that you find a happy peaceful place. Also I never assumed that you were involved in the breakup of this guy's relationship. But it's obvious that there's still things to work out there. Even the fact that you question his heart and if he still may like his old wife, and the fact that his mother is trying to get them back together, it's just not good. My advice is just don't get involved...be friends if you can but really you deserve better. Especially a guy that beats up a family member in your home. AGGGHHH!!! Wake up!! Find someone who will be a good guy for you and treats you with respect. Someone who you'd never have to question where his heart lies. I'll pray for your serenity and peace. Anyways you deserve to be treated like a princess, so do accept anything less hey!!! __________________
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Posted: 09 Jan 2008 22:03
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Dr. Scape... hahahhaahhahahaha!!! __________________
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Posted: 09 Jan 2008 23:17 Last Edited By: Shadowland
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I really would like to move tho. I'd like a new outlook. And give nobody my address LOL. One good thing happened about 1 hour ago, bro-in-law was taken back home by my sis who forgave his horrible disclosure in front of guests. To tell the truth, good ol' me felt like knocking him unconscious myself!! I said, I wanted to "redecorate" and not to come over for 10 days. I HOPE they will be over IT by then. Right now, it is just me, R--- is back rewiring the flooded areas in much destroyed Fernley. That will take them a looong time, much damage when the levee broke last week. He was not married before, just a casual thing but she got PG. It is his. He is not looking to get her back. But his mom thinks he HAS to (Catholics--both he and the girl and of course his Mom who doesn't give up)) She IS single yet.
Thanks for your advice. ALWAYS EXCELLENT!!! I am happy with my life, but periodically, peace is lost, Paradise Lost, etc. but I ---never am. I am really grounded and strong. Hardly anything in this world or life "gets to me". I am woman, hear me roar"
Posted: 10 Jan 2008 01:17
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It's important for a woman to be strong and independent however it's just as important for her to be soft and feminine. Anyways as strong as you are, I'm sure you still desire to be loved and pampered, to feel special and desired. Every woman does. I guess to me, if your not ready go close doors behind you, new ones may not open ahead of you, and you may never know what really cool doors are waiting to be opened for you.
Anyways only you know what you truly desire, just don't accept subpar hey!!! __________________
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Posted: 10 Jan 2008 01:51
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I honestly could not stand it if anyone pampered me. I'd probably run out the door. No, I am definitely not the type. I am really femimine looking alright.No tom-boy here!!!! I like pretty things, I like lotions and perfumes.I like loving and all that. Got the right "stuff" to be very female. (but I am a lion-tamer in my heart.) LOL.OMG, if someone pampered me I would just have to laugh.No purring. Wipe that smile off your face. Hee Hee.
Posted: 10 Jan 2008 02:42
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HAHAHA... Common' you don't like a nice date where there's candles on the table, a then some soft music and a nice message, a night that makes you feel like a queen? I don't believe it! Those are the funnest dates a guy can give a woman! To make her feel alive and beautiful! Frisky and fun!!! Either way to me, I love dates where you can make your girl feel like she's at the edge of the world! To each there own I guess!!! __________________
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Posted: 10 Jan 2008 03:03
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I pity the guy who tried to give me a massage. I have never had one and I would give the guy who tried a black eye. There only certain times for touching me and a massage no one would ever get past me. Ha ha--I am so stiff my osteopath wanted to do a manulipulation on my back and I resisted him so bad he had to give up. He'd twist me and I'd seem twist back twice as hard. He ended up laughing and sitting in my LAP, to get me to "chill-out".We are friends and the same age.Love the guy, but not enough to get manuipulated. Ha ha--I am really quite peculiar.
Posted: 10 Jan 2008 03:31
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HAHAHAHAHA that's funny!!! Wow!
Too bad I love messages. Now I feel sad cause it's been so long!!!
Well, there you have it hey. So sad you can't allow someone to give you a soft carress, message, out of love and respect. It's not always manipulation hey. I love having a nice warm oiled back and body message by a girl I'm close too. But I love giving them more. Don't get me wrong I'm not saying just anyone anywhere, I've got to have a strong chemistry with that person as well as be in a relationship with her. I guess I'm just a very intimate guy, with big soft side!
At least you like dancing hey!!! That's something I've not done in a long time....grrrr now I'm really getting sad!!! Look what you've done to me now!!!
Just kidding!!!
Thanks for the fun messages, this board has been quite boring lately, this has made it much more fun and lively!!!
I agree with you that you are peculiar!!! But not nessesarily a bad thing though... Dare to be different right!!! __________________
That's funny, I thought for sure I am in Morrisville, NC - let me double check - yup I am!! LOL!! It is amazing how many David Harveys there are out there.
How about this to throw in with the many profound thoughts here:
"There is no emotion, there is peace.
There is no ignorance, there is knowledge.
There is no passion, there is serenity.
There is no chaos, there is harmony."
Okay, so it's not Shakespeare or John Irving, but it seems to be true. Sometimes anyway! __________________
The Bible is so powerful. It's not to be left on your shelf. It's to outline even the simplest scriptures that can mean so much in building yourself up.
"I am God's workmanship." (Ephesians 2:10)
"I have been redeemed and forgiven." (Colossians 1:14)
"I am the salt and the light of the earth." (Matthew 5:13-14)
Yes, nice quote.
I am most decidedly not a "romantic"--I'd be mad if someone gave my flowers because I hate to see them cut. There is no such thing as a romantic episode to me. Only a stage, set!! I am so honest, I can do what I need to do, without any "foreplay" of dining and roses and gifts and massage. So basic, I can cut thru all of that to the bottom line without batting an eye. I can be passionate and in love but prefer Without the frills. What is that? I have no clue. I guess my alter-ego "Rima The Jungle Girl" LOL!
Posted: 10 Jan 2008 06:44
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Hey sometimes cutting to the chase is good. Wild passion, lust and love, raw and excitement. Nothing wrong with that...nope!!!
However I guess for me it comes down to the balance of things. I love the warm and fuzzies, the snuggling, cozzied up in a blanket, watching a movie, the messages, tickling, goofing around, play fighting, all the way to what you mentioned earlier which is the raw heat of the moment.
Oh well, we are all different striped Zebras hey!!! Life would be much boring if we were all the same! So Go be your Rima Lord of the Jungle!!! That's awesome!!! Too funny. I'll be babbling Bob for now, or as David said, Dr. Bob! The Love Doctor... HAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAA!!!!! Now that made me laugh!! My dog is looking at me funny cause I'm laughing for no reason to him....anyways!!! Wow....
That's a closer hey!!! __________________
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Posted: 10 Jan 2008 07:39
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Not Lord of the Jungle! Sheesh! Jungle GIRL! Pleeeeze. And Tarzan visiting would suit me to a tee. I'd like a Tarzen in my tree.
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Quote: My nephew knows the band and said from the front room (I am in the kitchen)"RAMMSTEIN" Cool!
Well at least someone knows them. __________________
The MAN Rox and I stand with everything he stands 4, but I gotta have my girl Angelina wherever I go.
Posted: 11 Jan 2008 05:10 Last Edited By: dharvey1031
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Lordess of the Jungle!!! OR Queen of the Jungle! Wasn't Sheera Queen of the Jungle?
Anyways who's Rima Jungle Girl anyways? Interesting....
When I was a youngster I was Lord of the Jungle Gym. __________________
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Posted: 11 Jan 2008 06:08
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Sorry Bob, I had to edit your post - while I understood your humor (sort of), I thought it was too much for the board. __________________
The Bible is so powerful. It's not to be left on your shelf. It's to outline even the simplest scriptures that can mean so much in building yourself up.
"I am God's workmanship." (Ephesians 2:10)
"I have been redeemed and forgiven." (Colossians 1:14)
"I am the salt and the light of the earth." (Matthew 5:13-14)
wondering what Davey had to edit from Scaper.
Are their kids here?
Posted: 11 Jan 2008 23:54
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Nope but it was funny!!! David was the brunt of the joke. It had to do with a Leppard skin tight thong and a cropped mesh cut off shirt and a leather biker hat!!! But I can't say any more than that or it'll get edited out again!! __________________
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Posted: 12 Jan 2008 00:11
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Oy Vey!! I give up!!
BTW, Tim likes to keep this a clean board (as do I) in case kids do happen to peruse the forum. __________________
The Bible is so powerful. It's not to be left on your shelf. It's to outline even the simplest scriptures that can mean so much in building yourself up.
"I am God's workmanship." (Ephesians 2:10)
"I have been redeemed and forgiven." (Colossians 1:14)
"I am the salt and the light of the earth." (Matthew 5:13-14)
Don't mess with me...I'm like a super BABY!!!
and it took only one to put b-in law down for awhile. He did carry him to the couch and get him an ice pack) He is certainly OK now (for days) But loves my couch!
